Let’s Get Creative – In Bed!!

Use of a Vibrator has plenty of benefits. Not only it brings spice into your sex life with your partner, it keeps your vagina healthy and active as with age, the vagina tends to get less elastic. Most importantly, it takes your pleasure horizon to another level!
We asked some of our members to share their experiences and this is what they had to say –

Anonymous member –

I’m sure most of you ladies out there can relate to this but finding the right vibrator can be quite a journey. I mean, it’s not like we can just walk into a store and ask for a recommendation, “Excuse me, what’s the best vibrator for me?” No, no, no. It’s a secret quest, a hidden treasure hunt, and let me tell you, I have finally found the magnificence of the century: the holy grail of all vibrators.
Now, I know what you’re thinking. How did I make this magnificent discovery, you ask? Well, let me tell you, it all started with a simple Google search. I was feeling a bit adventurous and wanted to try something new, so I started browsing the vast universe of the internet. And that’s when I stumbled upon it – the vibrator of my dreams.
It was love at first sight. I mean, just look at it. It’s sleek, stylish, and packed with features that would make a tech geek jealous. It has multiple speeds, patterns as feature. I was in awe, and I knew I had to have it.
The moment I got my hands on it, I was ready to test it out. I must say, I was a bit nervous, but also very excited. I mean, I’ve heard so much about the liberating and empowering feeling that comes with using a vibrator, and I was ready to experience it for myself.
So, I set the mood, lit some candles, and turned on some music. I grabbed my new toy, took a deep breath, and… WOW. Just, wow. It was like nothing I had ever felt before. The vibrations were strong, yet gentle, and not to mention the terrific ORGASM… well, let’s just say it added a whole new level of excitement.
As I continued to explore my body, I felt a sense of empowerment wash over me. I was in control, and it was liberating. I was able to enjoy the sensations, without any distractions or worries. It was just me, my vibrator, and the moment.
But the best part? My partner was reluctant initially on experimenting the gadget on me. But we thought why not give it a try. It turned out to be a new and exciting experience for both of us rejuvenating our almost dead sex life.
Now, I know some of you may be thinking that using a vibrator takes away from the intimacy of being with a partner, but let me tell you, it’s quite the opposite. It adds a new level of excitement and intimacy to your relationship. Plus, it’s a great way to explore your own body and understand what you like and what you don’t like.
In conclusion, I must say, finding the right vibrator has been one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. It has not only brought me pleasure, but it has also given me a sense of liberation and empowerment over my own body. So, ladies, if you’re looking for a new and exciting way to explore your sexuality, I highly recommend giving a vibrator a try. Trust me, you won’t regret it.

Anonymous member –

I am a person with a high sex drive and I lucked out when I fell in love with and married a guy who is as into sex as I am, or perhaps even more. Our marriage of 2 decades plus has been all about open communication, an enthu for spicing things up and making very conscious efforts to keep our sex life regular and rocking.

I first started using a small clitoral vibrator some 15 years back when my husband gifted it to me. A couple of years later a dildo also followed. These were online purchases made out of curiosity when sex toys first started selling in India.
The best kind of sexual partner is the one who gives equal importance to pleasure for both, one who understands that a vibrator is not his enemy or his replacement in bed but it is an ally which can quadruple the pleasure.

Focus on female pleasure needs to mainstream. I actually clapped when a short film called Happy Birthday Mummy Ji by Shefali Shah on youtube ended with her slipping into a hot tub and focussing on self pleasure.

I feel deeply sad that so many women are not in touch with themselves, their bodies and needs. Some harbor shame and guilt, some have no privacy or space to get in touch with themselves, some lack self awareness and knowledge. What’s even sadder is that most of their partners are selfish, self centred, ignorant idiots, refusing to educate themselves about their partner’s bodies and needs and rolling off and snoring once they’re done. The more I hear of such things, the madder I get and wish women took pride and felt rightful about their pleasure!

Today we women, increasingly and very consciously don’t want to depend on men for finances, physical and social support or even for having a child. Then why must we depend on men for sexual satisfaction? Why not take matters into our own hands?
The biggest reason I would want every woman to have a private drawer of her own with some lube and toys is glorious MULTIPLE ORGASMS. To me, good sex is the closest you can get to nirvana without starving yourself under a tree waiting for enlightenment. Orgasms are healthy, healing and naturally uplifting. Unlike men, women have the ability to enjoy endless multiple orgasms and I think it is something to explore, enjoy, and celebrate.

To the product designers I’d like to say ‘Hey! ONE BIG THANKS buddy! You’re earning a lot of good karma my friends for some uber smart, techy innovations and variations in this category.’

I am an ex advertising professional (art director) slash ex college level teacher but in my mid 40s I switched gear and went back to my first love i.e. words and I write for films now. All my professions needed a deep connect and understanding of human behaviour and sexuality has been my favourite subject. 

Anonymous member –

Women’s sexuality is not an often understood concept. A woman can have desires??? For the longest time, I also believed that sex was over when the man was satisfied, if that got done quickly, so I should be happy with that, if it took longer, then I should be happy with that too. Where my satisfaction in this graph was was of no consequence. So, satisfying your man was the be all end all of why we had sex. Right? Wrong.

Lets first face the fact that women have desires too, they get horny too and they like to orgasm too. It is said that a woman takes very long to climax and sometimes never manages it at all. No sir, that’s not true. This happens when she is not stimulated or aroused enough by her partner. Leave this to her and like everything else, see how well she can make magic happen. This is where vibrators come in.

When I was first exposed to the idea of masturbation, I found it revolting. I grew up to believe that exploring the “Netherlands” on your own was so wrong. When I saw vibrators for the first time, I laughed. I was presented my first vibrator by my partner at the age of 45. To be honest, he is the man who actually helped me understand that women can orgasm very easily and quickly and also, multiple times. So my birthday present was the use of the vibrator together. You would wonder why one would use a vibrator as a couple. But that’s where the stimulation, foreplay and listening to the woman’s body comes into play. Sometimes you should just let a machine help you do things to add spice to your relationship.

I never thought this would end up having such an impact that I neither laughed at it nor did I feel repulsed. It was comfortable; it was awesome to say the least. Over a period of time, the vibrator got its name from how sexy I found Chadwick Boseman, the “Black Panther”. In the past 3-4 years that I have had it, I have realised that I am not shy to recognise my desires and act on them when I am feeling frisky.

Orgasms release endorphins and oxytocin which are feel-good hormones, activate pleasure centers in the brain that create feelings of intimacy and relaxation and help stave off anxiety and depression. That itself is reason enough to help yourself to a bit of pleasure. It’s funny that at a menopausal age when most women have a declining libido, I seem to come on heat before every period. During these days, I thank the maker of the vibrator. I am not shy to use it solo anymore, because, I know, more than anyone else, what stimulates me, what gives me pleasure and what I would want to do about it. After nearly 3 decades of sexual maturity, I finally feel in control of my sexuality and not embarrassed about my desires and taking them to satisfaction myself.